As luck would have it I start attending bible study the second to last session before they take a break until May. As even more luck would have it the last session is this Saturday. The same day I have plans to attend what I joke to be my actual religion – Opening Day with MLS (Major League Soccer.)
We are season ticket holders for our local team and because we live 100 miles from the stadium going to a game is an all day thing. Even though the game is early it is not early enough to be back for Saturday’s Bible Study.
I realized this on Sunday (right after I told someone I would totally be at the next bible study.) I was just going to skip it but it was actually on my mind all day yesterday so I returned an email welcoming me to the church that also happened to be from someone holding a bible study group.
After a few phone calls today I have all the info I need and am going to head to a different bible study group; which bring me to a decision I need to make.
Full disclosure or not? Do I tell everyone I am an Atheist and why I am there/what I am doing? If so, do I tell at the beginning? The end? Or when the time seems right?
I don’t really know what to do here. I don’t want to misrepresent myself but I have had people question why even tell anyone unless they ask? I have been thinking about this since yesterday also and it is another reason I thought about just skipping the whole thing this week.
Hopefully I can figure it out in the next 4 hours.
I wouldn’t say anything unless it gets brought up or the time feels right.
Going with rose on this one.
I am not sure how it would get brought up – but maybe when the time feels right is a good suggestion.
I believe you tell them straight up where you are. Don’t try to be someone you are not. I am a Christian and I would prefer to know – it wouldn’t make me think any different about you either. I can’t say it would be that way with all so-called Christians, however, the point is, be yourself. I sense that God is working in your life, though you might not sense it (but you might). By the way, what team? Seattle Sounders? I’m a huge soccer fan, but I haven’t followed MLS since its inception. I originally had season tickets to DC United for the first couple of years and then lost interest. I just recently purchased MLS Direct Kick because I want to follow one of the MLS teams from the Northwest (Vancouver, Seattle or Portland). Why would someone from my area want to follow a team from the Northwest? Because their fans are awesome! I love the culture around those games and I am going to figure out which team I want to root for soon. Just need to see a few games first.
Colorado 🙂
oops, I saw Washington state and thought Seattle. So, some Colorado Rapids – I love the city, but not so much the team – but yet, we will see as I watch a little more. 🙂
Agree with the other two. As it comes.
I have been following your journey, I am enjoying your honest perspective & inspired by your courage to give your all to this experiment!!
As for your dilema today, my Christian advice as a ministry worker & teacher is to be truthful & present yourself with full disclosure. The bible teaches us that “the truth will set you free”… I think you will feel fake & even guilty , otherwise, if you are real with people, they will respect your honesty.
I have to admit to not reading the prior comments, so I don’t know if this has already been said; but for what it is worth, I wouldn’t say a thing. Do you ever wonder if by disclosing the fact that you’re an atheist, it prompts people to go above and beyond how they might treat you if they didn’t know? In order to sway you/convince you? I may be being brash…just something to consider. See how how things go without all your cards on the table, maybe.
For me, truth and light always…
VERY interesting blog you have here.
That’s a tricky one and I’m not sure how to tell you to play this out as a Christian without actually being a Christian. Let me explain…
As Christians, we are taught to be particularly careful about what we’re doing with our mouths (minds out the gutter please! I’m talking about in speech). Depending on why where saying something or why we’re choosing to divulge information, we can be acting in accordance with God’s will or not. In fact there are times where both speaking and holding our tongues is to be considered sinful.
In Galatians 2 (NIV) we see Paul choosing to confront Peter (Cephas) in speech:
Peter was being a jack-wagon! He was separating himself from the uncircumcised gentiles, because he feared what the reaction of the circumcised Jews may be. He was contributing to a rift which would fracture the unity of God’s church. Unity of the church is big with God:
Conversely, there are many places in scripture that tell us to just shut up. e.g.:
I don’t know. I think everyone comes to a Bible study at different levels of faith, and various lenses and perspectives, so on one hand I don’t see why you need to say something.
However, maybe being open about where you stand will benefit you and them both in that it opens the door for honest dialogue.
opps sorry. looks like I forgot to close that quote after Proverbs 11. Does anyone know if I can edit a comment?